We have spent the last two days with my dad, we finally spent a night there, kids have been asking when we could sleep there. The kids "helped" my dad in the garden, we have eaten good food and I have been to the hairdresser before the move, good to get it out of the way and like this I dont have to start looking for someone as soon as I get there. Dad put the kids to bed and it felt really good as it was the first time in 2 months that I didnt have to do it. My mum has been a great help but she has been too tired in the evening. She read a couple of evenings but I had to take the fight to brush their teeth. So now we said our goodbyes to my dad, I think it will be another year until we come back and he hasnt planned to come this winter. We will miss you!