Today when I dropped off J I even saw a smile on her face. What a relief! And this had to happen on the day when we have an appointment to see another nursery :) Still, we will go see the other nursery, its easier when you can compare with something and if it doesnt feel like a better match we can stop thinking about that and either decide to keep her where she is or for her to stay with me for these two terms until she starts school after summer. I think we need to talk to her teacher too though as J has told me that "school is fun when P is not there" and this P has not been there this week (when J has been happier about school) so Im wonding if there could be a problem between theese two girls that we can help them solve. Its not easy regardless, we want the best for our kids but sometimes I wonder if we dont worry too much.